Our San Francisco client is strong, sharp, and easy to be around. He is 48, Caucasian and stands a fit 5’8”. His style leans classic and understated, with an outdoorsy edge that matches how he lives his life. He’s the one telling a story that gets the whole table laughing, then turning to you with a quiet follow-up that makes it feel like you’re the only person there. Direct, grounded, and genuinely warm, he carries a kind of confidence that comes from experience, not ego.

He grew up in Greenwich, CT, earned his MBA at an Ivy League school, and now lives in San Francisco, where he works as a financial advisor. His career is built on trust. He helps young families protect what matters and plan for what’s next. It’s a path that blends strategy, empathy, and connection — and he wouldn’t trade it for anything. The life he’s built is balanced and spacious, with room to move, room to grow, and room for someone remarkable to walk in.

Even with that balanced life, his calendar stays full — not out of obligation, but because he genuinely enjoys how he spends his time. Most mornings begin with a strength class, and evenings might include dance, Toastmasters, or a comedy workshop where he sharpens new material. He journals to reflect, reads widely across genres, and still sends handwritten thank-you notes because gratitude deserves more than a quick message. His mind stays engaged, but his presence is calm. He listens closely. Remembers what matters. Asks thoughtful questions that make you feel heard. He’s the kind of friend who checks in before you realize you needed it, who picks up on things others miss, and who shows up because that’s just who he is.

That same presence extends to his relationships. Our client is deeply connected to his family, not just in words but in the way he shows up. He spends time almost every weekend with his niece and nephew, keeps long-distance relatives in the loop, and makes sure the people he cares about know it. He laughs easily and owns his emotions without apology. Honesty matters more to him than performance. He’ll listen when it counts, speak up when it matters, and meet hard moments with steadiness instead of noise.

He’s not looking for someone to impress or entertain. His idea of a great date is simple and grounded in connection — a long walk through the city, no rush, no script, just two people in sync. Conversations that drift from light to deep without effort. Moments that feel unplanned and just right. That same sense of ease and presence is what draws him to a woman. He’s most attracted to those who are emotionally fluent, socially engaged, and entirely themselves. Intelligence matters. So does kindness, curiosity, and the ability to stay open even when things get real. He’s looking for someone who knows what she wants but still leaves space for surprise — someone with her own rhythm, her own substance, and the desire to build something lasting.

He’s built a life that he loves. Now he’s ready for the love of his life.

Seeking women:

• 30 to 40 years old in the SF Bay Area

• Open on ethnicity and height

• Highly educated, successful. While passionate about her career she has good work-life balance.

• Positive, kind and optimistic

• Wants children yet doesn’t have children yet