Here are some books I highly recommend reading.
"Have him at hello" by Rachel Greenwald
This book offers great insight into why you haven't found the men you actually want to date, why some men don't call back, and how to get the right men to call back every time. A great read for men too.
"Marry him: The case for settling for Mr Good Enough" by Lori Gottlieb
This book helps highlight for women that Mr. Right often comes in unexpected packages, and the need to throw-out your list. A must-read for women.
Find a husband after age 35 (using what I learned at Harvard Business School)" by Rachel Greenwald
This book applies successful business skills to create an effective love action plan to find your mate. Good for both women and men.